thahappycamper
Level 3
You don't care if she has 30 guys friends on her phone contact list and she makes it a big deal that she goes out with them every other week? On friday nights drinking and dancing at a bar? hehe
What Turns You Off?
- Thread starter Hamster
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I think we had this conversation awhile back and I sacred you when I said I didn't have any ambition. Heh. I guess cause I'm the type that doesn't stay interested in a thing very long and I keep wanting to do new things. Then eventually come back to the old thing and then move on to the next. I'm not wishy washy per say but my attention span is short. I don't dwell on something for a long time to develop a passion for it. when it comes down to it, i just want a calm peaceful life, good times with family and friends and my dogs, and good food to eat. i don't need to be super rich or anything.
neither am i. if i were to go back to school, i would study to be LVN. i definitely like foreign languages so I will take languages courses. I seriously should think about brushing up on my Spanish. Most jobs require bilingual Spanish.
thahappycamper
Level 3
If I girl is dating someone new every 3-6 months from high school till her late 30s, man I think that is so nasty. You could say that's about 25 doods she slept with. But if she slept with 25 doods before she hits 25, that is even nastier. hehe I know this girl, her average was about 2-3 guys a year since she was 20, that not including one-night stands. she's about 30 now. So she dated about 30 doods, plus one night stands that unaccounted for. She has one kid and is a single mom. She has a great career, well-off, and highly educated. I still would think twice about touching this girl. She still a cutie but its just a big turn off. I guess she just loves sex. I'm guessing guys don't want to stay with her long because of her long history of sex partners.
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thahappycamper
Level 3
Depends on age, the older the woman, the more sex partners I expect her to have. But it think for a 30 year old woman, I like her to have less than 10, prefer less than 5. Might be a pipe dream though. A porn star will have 100-1000 sex partners during their career...whoa! My ex gf has about 10 sex partners by the time she was 20. That's a hoe right there bro. 
Why is it that girls, after having sex, always regret it later and feel shame?
Why is it that girls, after having sex, always regret it later and feel shame?thahappycamper
Level 3
I'm sure you'll find something. I'm also sure that you'll find a great girl one day
cause you seem like a decent guy. There's plenty of things out there and there's plenty of fishes in the sea. Don't hold back and play it safe, when you see something you want, you attack it with all you got man!
Youwngyee23
Commoner
now i am married and love my man very much. high school sweet heart since grade 9 to present
am I still entitled to voice my opinions here goes
what turns me nd my girl friends off
from my single girlfriends out there these are for u
1. men who grab their private parts and scratch it in front of everyone..T_T
2. swearing in every sentence
3. has a wife and family but acts like he is still single---shady!!
4.inequality just cause i am a girl doesn't mean i cant drive a stick
5. selfish, psychoanalyst- they mess you up....
6. men who sleeps around
7. men who gossip and make untrue rumours about sleeping with a girl but didnt- it ruins the girl for life --happened to a girlfriend of mine was really tragic.
8. stealing and liars
9. irresponsible
9. last and final drug addiction
not all men and women are like this but there are still some out there lol.
this can go both ways for women and men
am I still entitled to voice my opinions here goes
what turns me nd my girl friends off
from my single girlfriends out there these are for u
1. men who grab their private parts and scratch it in front of everyone..T_T
2. swearing in every sentence
3. has a wife and family but acts like he is still single---shady!!
4.inequality just cause i am a girl doesn't mean i cant drive a stick
5. selfish, psychoanalyst- they mess you up....
6. men who sleeps around
7. men who gossip and make untrue rumours about sleeping with a girl but didnt- it ruins the girl for life --happened to a girlfriend of mine was really tragic.
8. stealing and liars
9. irresponsible
9. last and final drug addiction
not all men and women are like this but there are still some out there lol.
this can go both ways for women and men
Youwngyee23
Commoner
sorry for being nosy but hamster you are an ideal guy...good men are hard to come by props to u *smiley face*
thahappycamper
Level 3
Damn I have every one of these quality. I'm doomed.
Youwngyee23
Commoner
Lol you guys are funny. Happy camper I like that you are honest its a good quality but can get you into trouble with fickle women.
Youwngyee23
Commoner
For real phonn88 your a good man then. I can let them know haha
thahappycamper
Level 3
Thanks for being positive and nonjudgmental towards my craziness. You're really sweet! You know, I'm just a product of my past experiences, I really wish that I can change one day and become a true gentlemen like hamster and rei. Right now though, I'm happy being a rebel without a cause. I get hurt less and people don't take advantage of me. Lonely though, because of my antisocial behavior, I connect only with a few people. My therapist says I need to work on heart-mind integration lol. I have not begun that process yet.
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thahappycamper
Level 3
Hamster, I think drive and inspiration goes hand in hand. What inspires you? What do you care deeply about? What makes you tick? What are your deepest thoughts? Care to share? I want to psychoanalyze you buddy! Just causeI'm sure you'll find something. I'm also sure that you'll find a great girl one day
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Youwngyee23
Commoner
ppycamper, post: 12610, member: 102"]Thanks for being positive and nonjudgmental towards my craziness. You're really sweet! You know, I'm just a product of my past experiences, I really wish that I can change one day and become a true gentlemen like hamster and rei. Right now though, I'm happy being a rebel without a cause. I get hurt less and people don't take advantage of me. Lonely though, because of my antisocial behavior, I connect only with a few people. My therapist says I need to work on heart-mind integration lol. I have not begun that process yet.[/quote]
Youwngyee23
Commoner
Totally posted that wrong. What a newbie.
thahappycamper
Level 3
lol...at least your tried. It's 11:26pm here.
Youwngyee23
Commoner
Lol my girlfriend can psychoanalyze you..too bad she is working lol I can ask her haha
thahappycamper
Level 3
Hell yeah man....that'll be great. I can't wait.
1......poor hygiene..if that person cant take care of themself, what guarantee u gunna have for them to take care of u lolz (this shud be easiest thing done)
2...shrubs...always bragging what they don't have, all talk
3....pathological liars...my WORST turn off! drive me crazy seeing them make a fool of themself lying left nd right. telling diff story everytime that don't add up. its a sad sickness if u have that.
last of all, people with no goals or direction in life. this is not sexy at all